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Mother

Who is a mother?

A mother is an ocean

of love, affection and devotion.

A mother is an epitome

of sacrifices.

She is the one ,

who nurtures us, supports us

and above all

provides us with her selfless care.

She is the one ,

who defines love.

Who is a mother?

A mother is an angel

gifted to us,

by the almighty!

(dedicated to the love of my life- my mom 🙂 )

 

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Promise day!

As we all know that valentine’s week is going on and today is promise day. So today I’m going to make some promises to myself ( Yeah, who said you can only make promises to your valentine? 😛 ). So here is the list.

  1. I’ll try to be more beautiful. Yes you read it right. But beautiful not from my external appearance but from my heart and my soul. Now if anyone of you doesn’t understand what it means, let me elaborate it. From ‘beauty of heart’ I mean, a person who is easy to like, who is empathetic (which I’m 😛 ) and who cares about feelings and sentiments of other people.
  2. I’ll try to spread smile and happiness. Well what is the use of a person who can make only himself/herself happy? A life worth living is where you can bring smiles on other’s face.
  3. I’ll try to motivate myself and others. How? Through my writings (Like this one).
  4. I’ll try to be a better person than I yesterday was. And do you know what is the first step to be a better person? First recognizing what is that which needs to be worked upon and then working upon it.

So I’m going to work upon these things. Each one of you can also make some promises to yourself this promise day. 🙂

 

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Love marriage VS Arranged marriage

We (youth) often have discussions regarding which format of marriage is better love or arranged. Some argue in the favor of love marriage and some in favor of arranged marriage.  I do not understand who put a VS between these two. According to me love and arranged marriages are not the Earth and the sky. These are just two different sides of the same coin. I’m not biased towards any particular format I’ve seen both of them turning out to be successful.

Living in a country like India, marriage is not just the union of two souls but also the union of two families. Our parents always want to see us happy. So they according to their own experiences they try to choose the best partners for us.  But the problem that lies here is even our parents do not know us completely (I would like to apologize if I’m hurting anybody’s sentiments). They have seen us growing but they’ve not seen our thought process growing. They haven’t seen our peers, for instance, and also the conditions and situations we’re facing once we’re out of our homes. And then there is a huge generation gap at present. At most of the things our thoughts are not aligned with our parents or grandparents. So needless to say our parents know only a limited version of us (In most of the cases not for everyone). And so their sense of judgement may fail when it comes to choosing a life partner.

Now coming to the love marriage, most of us at the time of our marriage are not even sure of our choices. Everything looks fancy at first but later on turns unobtrusive. That is the reason why some of the love marriages turn into ugly divorces later. What they had thought was love, was only attraction and the phase got over and so is the marriage. Love and attraction are two different things. Love starts when the attraction begins to fade, when the people realise that the other person is not perfect but still they want to spend their life with them. Love is when you keep on falling for the same person each day and you tend to do anything to put a smile on their face 🙂 Love is bliss and the best thing in life is to fall in love. Spending the whole life with the one you love is like living in a paradise.

If you ask me what do I prefer I would say a mixture of both. A love cum arranged marriage is the best of all kinds.

I’m not ending this post and leaving it open for further discussion. 🙂